9 reasons why women seek love outside marriage
1. She feels neglected, ignored and undervalued
A wife needs to feel that she is the cynosure of her husband’s eyes. She wants to feel desirable. When her husband neglects her, ignores her, and doesn’t appreciate her, she feels undesirable. To feel desirable, she can find a lover outside the marriage.
2. Her marriage lacks intimacy.
Women feel connected through non-sexual interactions. When a husband is considerate of his wife, engages in fun conversations with her, participates with her in building a home, and is co-partner in her social life, he provides her with the emotional intimacy she desires.
When that emotional intimacy is lacking, the wife may seek it from someone outside the marriage.
3. She is overwhelmed by the needs of others
Even in marriages where everything goes smoothly, wives can cheat.
When a wife’s duties revolve around her husband, children, work, and home, she may feel so overwhelmed that the only way she can experience life fulfillment is through an extramarital affair.
Women who cheat in such circumstances may love their husbands, but an extramarital relationship may be the only way to unwind.
4. She’s lonely
When a wife feels lonely in a relationship, she may cheat. Such loneliness may be caused by her husband working long hours or traveling frequently.
She may also feel lonely if her husband is emotionally unavailable. The emotional emptiness such women face can often only be filled by infidelity.
5. She is not enjoying sex with her partner
Believe it or not, women enjoy sex just as much as men do.
When a woman feels dissatisfied with her sex life, she may find a lover outside of marriage to satisfy her needs.
6. Your husband is very critical
A woman who is always criticized by her husband will feel unappreciated and lonely.
Being subjected to constant criticism is enough to lower any woman’s self-esteem.
Such a woman can find a lover who respects her and treats her with love. By committing infidelity, she increases her confidence.
7. She’s bored
Men have many activities, including playing sports that add excitement to their lives; women have few such events.
A woman bored with her life may have no alternative but infidelity to make her life more exciting.
Faced with having to choose between perpetual boredom and the excitement of an extramarital affair, she may prefer the latter.
8. She wants to date a bad boy
Women like sex, and many like wild sex.
A wife who believes her husband is too soft and tender in bed may decide she needs a lover to bring her wildest fantasies to life.
When she finds such a bad boy, she may choose to commit infidelity.
9. Her husband is domineering
Conversely, a wife may feel that her husband is too domineering in bed.
She may want to have sex with a man who is tender and caring. Such a woman may decide to commit infidelity when she believes she has found such a man.
Women may commit infidelity because their husband is too meek in bed or too wild.
They may commit infidelity even though they love their husband or because they don’t like him.
As emotions drive women, their relationship
Source:rediff.com
