Woman Wants Fiancé To Send His 4-Year-Old Away Or Put Her Up For Adoption Because She Gets On Her Nerves
A post that was originally shared in a private Facebook group has been taking the world by storm with its its boldness and cold-hearted nature. One woman requested counseling for some much-needed guidance on how to navigate a difficult situation she was dealing with. She wanted her fiancé to either get rid of his 4-year-old daughter or put her up for adoption.
The woman was not a fan of the little girl at all as she always needs her father’s attention. Since the little girl’s mother passed away, the little girl has been attached to her father’s hip. The woman was unhappy about this, especially since she and her fiancé had their own children along the way. Being seven months pregnant and expecting to get married sometime in the upcoming years, the woman was determined to make sure she and her baby were her fiancé’s top priority.
Wanting to make sure that her biological child would receive all the love, care and attention she needed, the woman wanted her fiancé to get rid of his own daughter so they could be a happy family without her. She reached out to the social media channel for advice hoping to get some advice on how to approach the situation with her fiancé. Instead, the post has continued to be shared on other platforms, leaving everyone completely stunned at how selfish and controlling this woman is.
What was once a post on a private Facebook page called TS has now become a viral thread on Reddit with a screenshot of the post shared in December 2020.
The post’s subject line read: “I want my fiancé to get rid of his 4-year-old daughter.” The message was even more horrifying than the subject line as the woman sending it went into detail on why she couldn’t stand her fiancé’s child.
“Hi @TS I need some advice from the mommies on your page,” the woman said. She explained that her fiancé had a daughter from a previous marriage whose mother passed away after the little girl was born. Her fiancé has been raising her on his own ever since.
The woman explained, “I am now in the picture and we are set to get married in 2022. I am also seven months pregnant with a precious little girl. I am not the stepmother type and I know I won’t treat his daughter the same way I will treat our child, to be quite honest she gets on my damn nerves.”
The little girl looks just like her mother, so it’s a constant reminder of the fiancé’s deceased wife. The woman explained that she wanted to make sure that her biological daughter would receive all of her fiancé’s attention, meaning that his 4-year-old daughter shouldn’t be in the picture. “She is very attached to her daddy and I’m afraid this is going to take away from my child’s bond with her father,” she said.
The woman continued, “I basically want to tell my fiancé to get rid of her, she can live with her grandparents or we can find her a nice family that’s looking to adopt a child.” However, she wasn’t sure how to have this conversation with her partner. “I promise I am not a bad person, I’m just trying to look out for my child and make sure she receives all of her daddy’s attention without having her ‘older sister’ intervene,” the woman explained.
Reddit users were appalled by the situation.
One user commented: “This has to be one of the worst, sickest things I have ever read on brides. She met him with a daughter and now she wants him to get rid of her… Hope’s best friend smells coffee, wakes up and tells her to take the leap.”
Another user said: “I can’t even imagine anyone feeling this way about their baby. My girlfriend is pregnant with our child and has a 2-year-old son.” The user continued, “I love her osn like he’s my own, and I would never wish something this bad happened to him. It’s a package deal. ”
While it might be understandable that this woman has struggled to build a deep connection with her partner’s child, her idea of making him get rid of his daughter was absolutely shocking to anyone who read her message. She was trying to make sure this little girl grew up with no parents in her life just so she could have her fiancé’s attention for herself and her biological child.
Source:apost.com
