Secrets and lies kill relationships. No matter how careful you are, you will get caught. What’s done in darkness always comes to light.
A good and sustainable relationship takes a lot of effort and time to build. But only two things could ruin it, they are hidden and deceitful.
Any of your hidden secret that they should have the right to know will upset them. They have a feeling that you don’t trust them, or worse, they think they are unreliable enough for you to share with.
Lying or telling lies is even worse. You let them down and break their faith. They think you consider them as stupid, so you treat them that way.
No matter how you try to hide it, the truth is exposed sooner or later. One day they realize what you hide or lie.
It was also the day the relationship of two people at risk of collapse. Because no relationship can exist without honesty, trust, sharing and understanding.
