He doesn’t REALLY want the Perfect Woman. He WANTS these 3 Things from you instead…
I. You Always Need to Give a Man Something to Work For:
If he doesn’t work for your relationship, he doesn’t value it
What men value most are the things they have to work hard to get.
That’s why they play hard to get work.
But, as you’ve probably noticed….
There’s a BIG problem with playing hard to get. That strategy stops working once he gets you.
Something happens when guys decide they’ve won you over. It’s almost as if they think, “The game is over.”
Their minds are already on their next challenge. What’s happening!
And how can you stop it from destroying your relationship?
II. Don’t make the same mistake as most women
When you have so much love inside you, you will want to manifest that love in the form of care and concern for the man you love.
And that is completely normal. However, you should not make the mistake of overdoing it. Remember that a man will always want an opportunity to assert his dominance over life.
And if you take that away from him, he’s not going to be really happy. Yes, you should be doing everything you can to take care of him. But you shouldn’t really be taking care of him either.
You have to give him the opportunity to really be the man he’s always wanted to be. And you also have to allow him to take care of you as well. Let him take the proper responsibility of a man in the relationship.
III. Instead, it all comes down to something he called “The Hero Instinct”.
Unleash your hero instinct
Every man on earth, from the time he was a boy, dreamed of growing up to be the kind of heroes who would save the world – and get the girl at the same time.
Give her a worthy challenge
3 ways to invite a hero into your life, starting today
1. Ask a guy for help.
Just go ahead and ask him for help once in a while. A guy will always want to feel needed. He will always want to be given a sense of purpose in his own life and yours as well. If you ask him for help, then you are showing him that you trust him and that you trust him to help you.
2. Try to appreciate his manhood.
Embrace the fact that he is dedicated to sports. Try to fall in love with the way he likes to manifest his macho personality in his daily life. Try to connect with him in every way possible.
3. Let him earn your respect.
And lastly, make sure you make him earn your respect. Don’t just give him that. Let him know that you are not an easy girl. Let him know that if he really wants to be with you, he needs to make the effort.
There is one thing they crave even more than a woman’s eternal and lasting love: A challenge.
So give him opportunities to prove himself. You don’t have to do the work of winning him over.
Sit back, relax, and give him the pleasure of earning your admiration.
Source:relrules.com, medium.coml
