Take note of These Words, The Inability to Say Them Have Broken up Many Homes
Here are some of the things that should not happen at a Wedding
1. Couples who keep malice with each other:
Yes, I know you think how is it possible, but yes, some couples are actually keeping malice with each other. Many pretend to love each other, deceiving the world. But in fact, when we approach them, they don’t talk to each other at home.
2. Couples leave a separate life at home
Some couples no longer do things for which they are mentally capable of being together. Instead, they do it in their own different ways. Take for example couples who have different rooms in the same house. They claim that theirs is no problem, saying that all they want is privacy.
3. Couples who never spend time together again
When couples no longer have time for each other. Feelings gradually begin to fade.
4. Allowing a third party into your marriage
Most couples allow a third party into their homes, thinking that they are their true friends, unknown to them that they are nothing more than home invaders.
5. Couples insulting each other
Some couples insult each other when they have a small argument. Some don’t even mind insulting each other in the presence of their children, and this is not good because their children are watching and learning.
6. Couples fighting
Some couples even get into physical combat.
Research as being done and it was found that are some simple and powerful words that could be said that could help prevent all of these acts listed above from happening.
Here are the words and why they are so powerful
1. Please
Many people don’t want to say “please” while asking for permission. They always believe it is their right. In marriages. Most people feel why they should beg their husband or wife. But it is not a crime to do so in marriage. It even makes the marriage more romantic. When you say please, you are showing your husband or wife that you respect him or her.
2. Thank you.
Even though we all know that we can never satisfy human beings. It is still good that you appreciate each other in your marriage for anything done for each other, it would make your husband or wife want to do more.
3. Apologize
When someone like him did something wrong and he or she doesn’t apologize to me. It would be really hard for the offended person to forgive the person. But when the word is spoken the anger in the offended person begins to fade gradually. Take for example children who are fighting, when they are separated and apologize to each other, they beg to play again as if nothing happened. This can also be applicable in marriage. The inability to apologize for something wrong has led to many broken homes today.
Please note that these words may only be five and six letter words, but I tell you that their power is in them.
They put marriages in prayer as well. Without God’s help, other things could destroy your perfect marriage. I pray that nothing will destroy your home in Jesus’ name.
Source:ng.opera.news
