10 things happy couples do differently!
Not all relationships are created equal. If you want to spice up your relationship with a dose of fun, consider the following 15 things that happy couples do differently.
1. They care about each other’s day.
Even if bad things and nervous racks bother you during the day, make sure at the end of the day to discuss the good things and give your partner a hug or kiss and ask, “How was your day? Good plans and positive vibes are needed, especially between you and your partner.
2. They embrace trust and avoid jealousy.
Our schools and workplaces are not segregated by sex, so how could we expect a person not to have friends of the opposite sex? Recall the tried and true statement of innocence until proven guilty. If you accuse your partner of cheating without cause, what incentive do they have to be faithful when they feel you don’t trust them no matter what?
3. They find common ground.
That initial spark is a glorious thing but there is no denying that it can be fleeting. To keep your relationship interesting, find common hobbies and interests to pursue. If you don’t have much in common, explore something that is new to both of you.
4. They compromise.
We can’t have everything we want. If your boyfriend took you to a romantic movie that you weren’t much into, snuggle up to him during Game Night to return the favor.
5. They listen.
Do you really listen to your partner or are you just waiting for your turn to speak? Let them finish their thoughts and paraphrase them to make sure you understand, saying something like, “If I’m hearing you right, you feel like ______. Is that correct?”
6. They deal with confrontation.
Fights are no fun, but there is no point in delaying the inevitable. Postponing a confrontation will only prolong the duration (and annoyance) of an argument. If you’ve done something wrong, damage control is best done as quickly as possible, so admit your mistake and explain yourself as quickly as possible.
7. They help each other grow.
One of the most painful things in the world? When a person you love is not interested in your personal hopes and dreams. If your partner is exploring an exciting job opportunity, support them. If your partner is training hard to become super fit, applaud them. Get excited about your partner’s accomplishments as if they were your own.
8. They don’t hold grudges.
We are all human, and we all make mistakes. A bad day at work, an unpleasant illness, or personal stress can make any of us say hurtful things we don’t really mean. As Marilyn Monroe said, “…if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you certainly don’t deserve me at my best.”
9. They express love.
“I love you” is a powerful expression that needs to be said daily. No matter how long you’ve been together, those three words will make your partner smile.
10. They compliment each other.
When was the last time you told your wife how sexy she looks in that red dress? Have you told your husband that lately he looks like a real stud in that super slim suit? Without the occasional compliment, it’s easy to feel unattractive and unappreciated.
Source:healthmgz.com
