Why Do Married Men Become ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛᴇᴅ To The Other Woman?
Men don’t love other woman because the woman is younger or prettier, they fall in love with other woman because they like the way they feel when they are with the other woman.
At the root of most affairs is fascination and passion.
To understand how men ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ with the last person one would expect them to ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ, one must understand that an affair is intoxicating and ᴀᴅᴅɪctive and that the “love” felt by a ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛing partner is different from marital love.
Married love:
Most marriages move from infatuation to a more balanced, reality-based committed love. This cannot be said for most cases.
It is not “love,” but passion:
The other woman is an object of desire, they are sought after on the basis that they satisfy the man’s need to feel “passionate” and not on the basis of who they really are.
Love affairs are as ᴀᴅᴅɪctive as alcohol or drugs because of the good feelings they delude in the ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛer. This “passionate” feeling gives the ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛer a kind of chemical high. He/she will continue the affair until the relationship is exposed to the realities of everyday life.
Below are 8 characteristics of “ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛing” “love”.
1. They feel as if they can’t live without each other, even though they live most of their lives away from each other.
2. They fear that they will fall apart emotionally if they have to walk away from the affair.
3. Have deep feelings of anxiety, worry, or jealousy of the affair partner.
4. Have a need for the affair partner to meet all their expectations.
5. There is a belief that the affair partner will change themselves to meet the needs of the other person.
6. The need for the affair partner to always be accessible, regardless of the fact that they can rarely see each other.
7. They have a deep dependence on the affair partner to “make” them feel loved.
8. There is an inability to find comfort when they are not with their affair partner.
Points to consider if your husband is ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛᴇᴅ to the other woman:
If your husband is having an affair, please keep in mind the 4 things below.
Source:divorcedmoms.com
