Why We Choose To ¢нєαт Instead Of Leave a Bad Marriage
1. It’s terrifying to try to stay. It’s terrifying to try to leave.
If you don’t want to be with your partner, why not leave instead of ¢нєαтing and hurting him even more?
- That answer in one word: fear.
- Fear that they will hurt their partner
- Fear that they will regret their decision,
- Fear that what they want in a relationship is an illusion, a fairy tale,
- Fear that they will screw up your children or never speak to them again, and fear that the grass is not actually greener on the other side.
2. A new study released revealed that most people would rather ¢нєαт than file for divorce
But why would people choose to ¢нєαт rather than just end things and find happiness with another partner?
Well, 46 percent stated that they loved their partners too much to leave.
Nineteen percent said they didn’t want to make things difficult for their children, and 17 percent simply couldn’t afford it.
More than 58 percent of people admitted that they would feel selfish if they filed for divorce, and 67 percent said they would feel even more guilty filing for divorce than ¢нєαтing.
Interestingly, 76 percent of people who ¢нєαтed said it makes them more patient and tolerant at home.
Source: the-sun.com, divorcedmoms.com