8 Signs That Show He Is Giving Up On You
1. A sudden change in behavior.
At first, he may start off by seeming more distant or quiet and this could also occur when you are together on your own.
This may be caused by several different reasons such as stress at work or feeling that he is not getting his needs met at home.
When this occurs, there are several things you can do:
– Find common ground. Emotional problems can be harder to tackle when there is no common ground between you. Find a way to bring the two of you closer, such as talking about your shared interests and hobbies.
– Listen to him. Try not to interrupt if he is seeking to express himself and do not take things personally. It is important to let him speak his mind, otherwise he may feel like there is nowhere for him to turn should the problem persist.
– Be confident and appreciative when he does express himself, even if it is not what you want to hear or it goes against what he should be doing.
2. Lack of communication.
Communication allows you to openly discuss and resolve any issues that may arise between you.
If there is a sudden change in the way he communicates with you, it may be one of the signs that he is giving up on you.
He may stop talking to you or become more defensive when certain topics come up, such as marital issues, lack of intimacy and even money.
If you feel like he is not communicating with you in a positive and healthy way or if there has been a sudden drop off in communication, try to figure out what is going on.
Listen carefully and ask him questions about his feelings – don’t interrupt or argue as this could worsen the situation.
3. He starts to withdraw from activities that were once enjoyable for the two of you.
You both used to enjoy going out together, but he starts to back out of activities or make excuses, he may be feeling uncomfortable in the relationship.
He may no longer want to take part in social gatherings or events that are important to you, such as family functions or religious ceremonies.
Ask him why he is withdrawing and try to find out if there is something troubling him.
4. He avoids talking about the future.
This is another important sign. A man who is thinking of leaving you or breaking up with you will avoid talking about what the future may hold for the two of you.
He may also avoid making any plans and when asked, he will make a weak excuse as to why.
Your partner should be able to express himself without feeling like he is doing something wrong, so take his feelings into consideration and be understanding, rather than judgemental in this case.
5. He has been more secretive than usual.
It is only natural for a man to have his own interests that he likes to keep to himself, however, if he no longer shares these things with you, it could be one of the warning signs that he is thinking of leaving.
For a lot of people, secrets are one of the biggest reasons that they begin to consider breaking up with their partner.
However, if he starts becoming more secretive than he usually is, this could be something to seriously consider.
Needless to say, this can be caused by a number of different things such as his work schedules, things that have happened in his personal life or even the possibility that they are having an affair.
6. He has been spending an abnormal amount of time at work or traveling for work.
If you start to notice that he is spending an abnormal amount of time at work or traveling for work, this could be one of the signs that he may be leaving you and has been considering this for some time.
If he does not have other engagements, it would be a good idea to ask him what he is doing when he is working or traveling.
You may be able to learn a lot about where his mind really is and what shadows his mind holds by asking him these questions.
7. A change in s3xual d3sir3 for you.
This is a sign that he is considering leaving the relationship.
If the two of you are not having s3x as often as you once did, it could be a sign that he has lost interest or desire to pursue physical contact with you.
Take the time to talk about your desires and needs, let him know what turns you on, but do not pressure him into performing if he simply does not want to.
You need to make sure that if nothing changes with this issue, then you will have to make your decision about whether or not it is worth sticking around for this lack of communication and passion in your relationship.
8. He does not respect you.
If he does not respect you, then this could be a warning sign that he does not see you as an equal person and wants to break up with you.
He may even treat you in a way that makes you feel like a lower priority and not come through on promises made between the two of you.
He may even speak badly about things that are important to you, such as your friends or your career choices.
