As parents, we want our children’s weddings to be ideal, but occasionally events take a dramatic turn that we cannot control. Allie, a caring mother, had simply requested that her husband’s wife not attend their daughter’s wedding, but the stepmother came up anyhow, ruining the celebration. However, Allie stepped in to salvage her daughter’s day, and she subsequently wrote to us to share her experience.
This is Allie’s letter:
I get irritated seeing my ex-husband’s wife, Tara, who ruined my marriage 12 years ago. For our daughter’s wedding, I asked that she not be invited, and my daughter agreed.
Regardless, on the day of the wedding, he brought her, saying, “Wherever I go, my wife goes too.” But I insisted, “I’m the mother of the bride and I don’t want her here.” She smiled at me and left. Right before walking down the aisle, I got a message on my phone from Tara.
To my horror, it said, “I’m not the only one who left! Remember, you did this to your daughter yourself. Now enjoy the day.”
At that moment, my daughter screamed. I rushed to her and found all her flowers on the floor and her in tears. She said, “Mom, Dad left too with Tara. He was supposed to walk me down the aisle, but he left me on my most important day.”
I told my daughter that I understood she was upset and angry, but I helped her dry her tears and gave her a pep talk before walking her down the aisle myself. The day continued well, but I know it will forever be a bittersweet memory for her because of what her dad did.
She says she’ll never forgive him for leaving her just like he left me 12 years ago to be with that woman.
What should I do now?
Yours,
Allie
