Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him
Things your man should never make you do – You may think that you love your man so much that you would do absolutely anything for him, but there are also some things that a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him.
10. Forcing yourself to stay when you really want to leave
If you are truly unhappy in a relationship, then you should end it. Don’t let a man force you to stay just because he doesn’t want you to end it, and also don’t let him make you stay through emotional blackmail.
9. Have an abortion
Things happen, and if an unexpected pregnancy occurs, then the man has to push himself to the limit and take his responsibilities seriously.He should never, under any circumstances, tell the woman to have an abortion. This is a very emotional decision that only the woman can make and then the man must be there to support her, whatever she decides.
8. Be more of a girl
Yes, some guys still think that girls should know their place! Well, don’t put up with it. If you’re not the pretty pink candy floss, stay at home guy, then don’t.
Get out there and do the things you want to do, even if you think they aren’t “girly” enough hobbies.
7. Stop seeing your friends
If he’s trying to stop you from hanging out with your friends, then that’s a sign of his own insecurities or controlling nature and you shouldn’t put up with it.
6. Change who you are
You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for that too.
A man should not ask you to change who you are because if you do, then it will just be pretense and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.
5. Have a baby before you are ready
It is your body and you will know when it is the right time to have children.
Children are not just accessories that go with a relationship, they are a huge, long-term, commitment and both partners should make sure they are ready for it.
4. Forget about your dreams
Whether it’s finishing college, going to university, having children or pursuing a career, a man should never ask you to give up your dreams for him.
You should be able to work together so that you can both follow your dreams and share them together.
3. Having unprotected physical intimacy
Unless you are truly established in a long-term relationship, then physical intimacy without “protection” is an obvious no-no and a man should never ask you to do it.
Some men still have a problem with wearing a safety hat, but if he has that little respect for you, then he should be telling you something else about this man.
2. Switching religions or beliefs
Convert or leave is not something you should tell anyone, because your beliefs are your own and should not be subject to negotiation.
If he can persuade you to change your beliefs, through rational and logical debate, and if you are comfortable with that, then that is not a problem. But, the decision should be his alone, not anyone else’s
1. Stop seeing his family
Relationships with in-laws can often be unsettling, but he has no right to tell you to stop seeing his family, or to force you to choose between them and him.
His family was around long before him, and they could be around long afterwards too.
Source:nairaland.com
