Love has no judgment, no agenda, no bias, and no bigotry. Love is love without a concrete definition. It lets go of boundaries, walls, and inhibitions. It is effortless. In relationships, love does require work. But it’s meant to be a rhythmic dance of ease and grace. Unfortunately, when it isn’t an easy dance, the relationship often ends disastrously. It’s in those moments that some women ask, “What happened?”
Sometimes it will be the man who does the leaving, and sometimes it will be the woman. Other times, it will be a mutual decision. The most difficult part of a break-up, though, often involves the unanswered questions. If you are a man concerned about the love of your life, you don’t want to be left asking, “Why?”
Here are 5 reasons women leave the men they love immensely
1. She has lost respect for you
Respect is one of the pillars of a strong relationship and if she doesn’t respect you anymore, every single minute spent with you will feel like a punishment. Your approach to the underprivileged, your thought process about social issues that matter or even small things like your views about the opposite sex. Women want to look up to the man they love and if you aren’t the one, the love may not matter so much.
2. You chєαtєd on her
Some women stay even despite the chєαting and give the love of their lives a second chance. But if your chєαting was deliberate and not something that happened in the spur of a moment, she s not going to tolerate it. Nothing hurts her more than seeing her trust being shattered by the most important person in her life. Did you know women hate emotional infidєlity more than physical?
3. She needs personal space
You can go out with the boys at night or party with colleagues at office. Aren’t these rules applicable for her? Just because you are insecure that you are going to lose out on such an amazing person? Women crave for personal space. Here s how to find out if your partner is insecure about you. After giving in so much of their energy and emotion in the relation, they need some time out too. She loves you but that doesn’t mean she unfriends the entire world to be with you and only you. If she misses her personal space too much and finds you unjustifiably insecure, there is no chance she is staying back.
4. You take her for granted
It s pretty common for men to treat their ladies like convenience stores. They will be all over them when there is nothing else to do or they need the emotional support. And then, when there s sunshine, she takes a backseat. I have even observed men break up with their partners and return only when they have lost something important in life or are facing a setback because they know that this woman will give them the courage and standby, no matter what. Women are not convenience stores and though she may continue loving you, she certainly won’t live with you after this.
5. Demeaning her
NEVER demean your wife or girlfriend. Just because she cannot fix an electric appliance doesn’t mean she is good for nothing. Or just because she was unable to understand some technical stuff related to your work doesn’t mean she is dumb. The day she starts pointing out your follies, you will have no face. If you need her and want to be with her, value her.
References: powerofpositivity.com, thehealthsite.com
